What could prompt a planning commissioner and a former mayor's husband to show up at a committee meeting (a committee on which neither sits) for the sole purpose of starting a fight with the current mayor's husband? I don't have the answer to that, but there's some small hint that there's a lot of resentment and anger over the annual Mayor's Art Show in the video from the last Lathrop city council meeting where J. "Chaka" Santos accuses the mayor of disrespecting Bennie Gatto (former mayor) and tells her it's not her committee.
Santos and MacNeilage are bullies and I guess we can add Ron Rhodes to that list now too. Santos smacks his fists during his "citizen's forum" rants at Mayor Kristy Sayles, like he wants to punch her. MacNeilage makes frequent threatening statements on this website, saying things like someone's going to "get hurt real bad" if we don't stop what we're doing. I would suggest to MacNeilage and others who have made threats to us over publishing their pictures and statements here, that if you don't want to be talked about, then stop showing up at public meetings and stop speaking at those meetings.
Commissioner MacNeilage seems to have appointed himself spokesman and enforcer for Lathrop politics and he says that he went to the Arts Committee meeting to "talk to Sayles" because he reportedly had "upset" some of the committee members and "made Joyce Gatto cry." (Joyce Gatto declined to comment to the Bulletin.) He admitted telling Sayles "you're not wanted here, you're not needed here" even though Sayles is a member of the committee and MacNeilage is not. Apparently, the bullies in Lathrop think they can get their way through brute force, and the ugly threats that have been flying around the past year have now escalated to physical violence.
Four years ago Kristy Sayles was the darling of Lathrop politics, backed by then mayor Gloryanna Rhodes and other prominent Lathropians. I think they thought that Sayles, being young and a newcomer to politics, would continue the "good old boys club" way of doing things that has been standard in the town for many years. When Sayles showed that she had a mind of her own and bucked the old establishment in Lathrop politics, the fangs and daggers came out. First came the vicious website that tried to destroy her and her family through ugly rumors and lies, false complaints to government agencies and the grand jury. Now we can add assault and battery to the frightening list of disgraceful actions taken in the name of politics.
April 29, 2009
ReplyDeleteThis is a copy of an e-mail I personally sent to Mr. Joe & Ms. Jackie I hope now by posting it here others will follow my lead also and request that the publishers of this web site stop posting their likeness as well. I sent this e-mail to both you Mr. Joe from Mantecalive.com & your wife Jackie and have just logged on today to see if you had taken my e-mail to heart and removed all references and photos of me I can now see you have not so it looks like you are really willing to have this thing go to the next level. Please take heed I am giving you one last opportunity to remove my name and likeness from this site or I will follow through with legal action and I know that will not be beneficial to either of us. I want you to know that unlike Mr. Dan I do not spend every chance I get reading your site because like I told others you only have power if we choose to give you power and I believe that not responding to your little comments is the best way to stop any further interest in your site called MANTECALIVE.COM not
LATHROP LIVE.COM, so why are you so concerned with Lathrop? This will be my final post and e-mail request to be removed from this site before legal ACTION!
April 18, 2009
6:35 P.M
Dear Mr. Joe & Mrs. Jackie De Angelis,
This is my one and only notice to you to keep my name and likeness off your Mantecalive.com web site and if anyone else posts anything with my name or likeness you are to remove it immediately from your Mantecalive.com web site. I am aware that Mr. Joe De Angelis of
Manteca, Ca. is listed as publisher on the Mantecalive.com web site. I will hold you and all other owner operators responsible if me requests to not met to have my name or likeness kept off your web site. This is the one and only legal notice I must give to you. I also added a copy of this notice to be sent to Denise Rizzo of the local Sunpost News Paper as witness that this notice was sent to you and your wife as I sent this notice to all three of you on the same e-mail. I hope that I will not have to pursue this request as far as any legal action against you or your web site. I simply request to be left off your site Mantecalive.com in every way shape and form no more pictures or my name used on your site also any thing that can lead one to believe that your site is referring to me any way. I hope you will take my request seriously as I really do not want to have to use the legal system to stop what you can stop without the legal system.
Thank you,
Rosalinda Valencia
Thomas Sayles has a history of this and it will not be tolorated any longer.Ron and I, as well as many others have helped with this event and countless other community events for many more years than Thomas has lived here. We did not require Mayoral approval to show up and help when people needed help.
ReplyDeleteYOU can continue to dog me all you want....The people that know me,know what kind of man I am and what kind of heart I have. I do not expect everyone to like me or agree with me....but I sure feel blessed for the good, genuine friends I do have in Lathrop and Manteca..... they amount to hundreds.....I bet you could not count 10 people in this area that not only know WHO you are, but consider you a friend............what a shame....all this talent you have, wasted.......I feel sorry for you Jackie.......what a waste....your words could help so many and you use this gift for self-serving reasons......as a matter of fact.....what have you done in this area to help anyone but yourself?
Dan Mac Neilage
Dear Dan MacNeilage and sidekick Ron Rhodes (Gorillas of Lathrop politics)
ReplyDeleteAssault, assault and battery, numerous witnesses, intent (stated publicly by you), apology for assault and battery to a witness by Ron Rhodes to the Mayor of Lathrop, lies, lies, fabrications, and more lies. It is time to face the judge and your mouthpiece Rose Albano Risso won't be able to help you with her biased journalistic attempts.
I, nor Ron is on probation for anger and assault issues.....Thomas Sayles is. I will be happy to explain to the judge of how this person was berating a senior citizen and how I asked him to leave. The ONLY apologies were for the loud foul language that was used. I realize I could have used better judgement.....but when some disrespecting bully tries to verbally assault innocent women and children.....my blood boils over......gee wiz....Kristy understands this better than anyone......it must be hell living with this crackpot.....it wasnt that long ago that she was getting restraining orders against Thomas for grabbing her children by the backs of their necks and jacking them up into the corner......
ReplyDeleteOh well........assault and battery and you go to jail...Thomas got the same ticket I did.....soooooo......your "sources" say what?
Dan, Chaka, Rosalinda,Ron and others who dont like whats going on in the city of lathrop.Read the four lines in the third paragraph of this article. Stop going to the meetings and dont critisize the mayor or you will face what you are facing now.You will be called chimps and God knows what else.
ReplyDeleteManteca live is Kristy live.
C'C'C'C'C'CANT WE JUST ALL GET ALONG?
ReplyDeleteThanks Rodney!
ReplyDeleteLet me get this straight, you go to a meeting to "defend" other mens'wives and other families children and claim that is your excuse for committting assualt and battery. Not to mention your facts are wrong but isn't that always the case when someone uses your name, "Dan MacNeilage", and then Ron Rhodes uses you as an excuse for committing assualt and battery and then you blame the person who was the subject of the assault.
ReplyDeleteThe question I have is: Are you grown men or children looking for a way to get out of this mess your in? I usually find children using someone else as their excuse or wrong doing. Anyway you are both in print as to your motivations and actions not to mention the witnesses, by your own words have you convicted yourself. I am going to the hearing and you will not be able to slander an libel quite so easily in a court of law and I will be a witness against you.
Respectfully,
A citizen of Lathrop
Thank you for spelling my name correctly. My father proudly named me after his uncle Daniel, a farmer from Kansas. Where I am from, a man stands up, a man speaks up and a man does what is right.Sometimes doing what is right is unpopular and the hardest of all things to do at that time. I cannot change what has happened, nor do I apologize for it. Thomas was given fair warning of what was to be should he continue to torment a 73 year old woman I care for dearly. He was challenged and he challenged me back. In another time, men handled disagreements quite differently than today. So many people are so very brave to write things about me and others on this site and they know nothing about, nor do they have the courage to confront their convictions about me to my face. If "a citizen of Lathrop" or any other woman or senior was being harrassed or publicly disrespected, husband present or not, I believe you would appreciate a man standing up for you. By the way, her husband is atleast 20 years older than Thomas. Thats all it was. If this is not what a man is to do in this situation........maybe you could explain the alternatives.
ReplyDeleteDan Mac Neilage
In reply to what seems your to be an excuse,
ReplyDeleteYou warned him you were going to do this and then you did it.
According to witnesses, and apparently the, "73 year old woman", "there was no problem" (as written in various newspapers) the person you threatened did not cause her to cry, there are no witnesses to that "event" except your claims and you want me to believe that you were righteous in committing assault. As I see, you continue with the claim he challenged you but according to witnesses this did not happen. Is it your belief that repeating a lie often enough will make it true? I think you are finding yourself in deep trouble and are looking for a way out. That is maybe why your story along with the other man's (the ex-Mayor's husband) has changed a few times. According to a witness who listened to him apologize to the Mayor, the witnesses report to the police contradicts the (ex-Mayor's husband) and you.
The alternatives are well known among decent and honorable men, they involve such things as asking to speak to the individual and letting them know an offense has occured and request an explanation and give the person an opportunity to apologize. Most important, it is not wise to take third party offense. If she was offended, then it is her husband's responsibility to speak to the other person, not you. This way, when the two parties that are in disagreement or offense as the case may be, find resolve to the issue, the third party is not still going around angry and seeking revenge. I think you can find that in the Bible. I will look it up for you if you would like. That way one does not get angry over all the wrongs done in this world.
I am curious about one thing. When did this "offense" occur that you claim. I know you are not part of the Mayor's Art Committee and do not go to those meetings so maybe you could clarify that detail. I understand the victim and the Gatto's do not socialize so when did this happen? And did I read this correctly in the newspaper, that you are somehow defending someone's children? I would like to know who you were standing up for. As I read it, it sounding as if it was the children of the victim, is that right? I am confused on your statement.
Respectfully,
A citizen of Lathrop
We will see what the judge has to say.....He is the one with the history....not I
ReplyDeletereal men dont have to look in a bible to know what is wrong or right. We are taught these things by the time we enter kindergarden.....
ReplyDeleteDan MacNeilage does what he thinks is right in his own mind and that includes assualt and battery.
ReplyDeleteReal men are wise enough to know that the Bible does tell them what is right and wrong.it is unerring, it is the plain truth for all to see and read for themselves. Can someone imagine Dan MacNeilage teaching his children that whenever they want, they should go to City Hall and commit assualt and battery if they don't like the person.
I love his defense though, that woman over there "supposedly" cried and while I didn't witness it, I wanted to defend her. Poor Mr. Ron Rhodes, his defense is, it looked like the victim was going to defend himself against the gorilla, so I committed assault and battery. Dear Ron, get your imagination under control before you end up in jail.
your facts are as skewed as your mind......no assault and battery took place........and I would go out of my way to defend the honor of a woman or child or senior any day of the week. Thomas has the history of such things and is on summary probation for his anger towards women and children right now! the only reason he did not have to spend the 18 months recommended by the D.A. is because Kristy and the kids were too terrified to testify against the chump........His pastor gave him anger management to resolve his issues and it didnt work........chew on that for a while
ReplyDeleteDan,
ReplyDeleteYou are a pathetic liar and somewhat delusional.
A witness
A witness,
ReplyDeletekiss my ass. Court documents do not lie. I have your pathetic and delusional right here. This looks like Tom S. got permission from his wife to get back on the internet.
witness to the truth
You sound like a broken record. Repeating the same thing over and over. Grow up.
ReplyDeleteLooks like your stupidity (JOE) has bitten you in the ass, about time.
ReplyDeleteWouldn't be the first time. My ass is pretty scarred.
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